Why Fame Should Not Be the Goal
Recently, I’ve been receiving messages from performers asking how to become “famous actors,” or they share that their ultimate goal is to “be famous” or land a Netflix role. These conversations inspired me to address an important topic: the idea of fame as the ultimate goal in performing arts.
The Reality of Fame
There’s a common misconception that actors fall into one of two categories: they’re either famous or not actors at all. This couldn’t be further from the truth. The reality is, only about 0.04% of actors become famous. That’s a tiny fraction, and if fame is your only motivation, it’s time to reflect. Instead, consider pursuing a career that truly makes you happy.
Most actors earn a stable living doing what they love without ever becoming a household name. They’re successful because they are passionate about their craft, not because they’re chasing fame.
Fame Is Not Freedom
Another common mistake is associating fame with freedom. Many people believe fame brings wealth, endless opportunities, and the ability to do whatever they please. But the truth is, fame often comes with its own set of challenges.
Famous individuals can lose the privacy and simple freedoms many of us take for granted. Their lives are closely monitored—curfews, security, constant public scrutiny, and even the inability to enjoy a simple outing without fans, paparazzi, or critics. Fame can be isolating, and it’s important to recognize that it isn’t all glitz and glamour.
Fame Is a Byproduct, Not a Goal
It’s essential to understand that fame is the result of talent, hard work, and dedication—not the ultimate goal. Those who become famous rarely set out with that ambition in mind. They excel in their craft, make sacrifices, and persevere through challenges.
These individuals focus on being the best at what they do. Fame follows naturally as a byproduct of their excellence and passion. For these performers, fame is not something to strive for—it’s something to embrace and be grateful for when it comes.
The True Goal: Happiness and Passion
Your aim should always be to do what makes you happy and to pursue what you love. If you follow your passion, you’ll never feel like you’re “working” a day in your life. Focus on honing your craft and finding joy in your art, rather than chasing external validation.
Remember: Fame is fleeting, but a fulfilling career doing what you love lasts a lifetime. Aim for happiness, growth, and excellence, and the rewards—fame or not—will take care of themselves.
